OK. Since she's indicated that she chooses to adopt out and isn't wanting an abortion, do you guys have a pregnancy crisis center in your area? Might be worth *her* calling them and explaining she's blind (I'm assuming, maybe she's not), and she's wondering if someone from the org/church/whatever can volunteer to escort her to this hotel, to let the father no. Honestly though I'd run the other way if I were you because you're in for a metric ton of drama.