I folled your blog from Blogher. I hope that’s ok.
I don’t have Lupus, but boy does this sound like what I go through with depression and bipolar. Some days I just have to accept that I’m not going to get anything done beyond the necessary. Some days a shower is a major accomplishment. Other days I know that if I can just get the smallest little thing done, it will give me the energy I need to get the next thing done. And the next. And eventually I’ll have gotten through the day.